YOU SHARE!

Here are some tips how to start and run your own SHARE group:


1.) Form a group

Maybe you have an existing group that would like to use SHARE. If not, you can make the group public or invite only.

The size and make-up of the group are crucial factors that have to be considered when setting up a group. If the group is too large, people get left out of discussions and might find it difficult to contribute to the conversation. The best group size is between 8 and 12.

Furthermore, SHARE should involve a diverse group of people from different (faith) backgrounds reflecting the diversity of the local community. Accordingly, a group may consist of people of Abrahamic and/or non-Abrahamic religions, from different denominations / communities within the same faith tradition as well as from secular/agnostic/atheistic backgrounds.

2.) Choose your theme and texts

The topic of your group should have relevance for your community. We have some suggestions - but maybe together you can identify other issues in your community that need to be addressed.

Furthermore, you have to pick the texts you would like to share. Everyone should be invited to bring a text that speaks to them about the theme you have chosen. You can then decide together which of these texts should be explored more in depth.

3.) SHARE together

Before you get started you have to consider the following questions:

• When will the group meet?
  We suggest having a series of at least two or three sessions. The number of sessions will vary depending on the composition and preferences of the group, the issues as well as the depth to which you would like to explore these issues. It is advisable to meet regularly, either weekly or fortnightly. Alternatively, you can host a one-day/weekend event.

• Where will the group meet?
  Choosing the right venue is an important part of the planning process since the location has to be agreeable and convenient to all participants. Maybe there are public facilities in your neighborhood you could use (community centers, university classrooms, local library etc.). Alternatively, you can move around for each session and visit the different places of worship.

• Who is doing what?
  For each meeting you’ll need someone to host the event, e.g. providing refreshments, technical equipment etc.You also need someone who is facilitating the session (“convenor’), e.g. observing the time-keeping, reminding participants of the ground rules, guiding through the steps, ensuring everybody is involved and contributing to the discussion etc. And you need at least two people who are willing to share a text and, if possible, to give a short introduction. The aim here is to explain why they chose this text but not try to be an expert on it! Of course, roles and responsibilities can change as frequently or as little as necessary

• Creating safe space
  Pay attention to making the space where you meet welcoming and safe. Try to agree some 'ground rules'  (e.g. confidentiality) before beginning a meeting. Sharing a meal might also help to get participants familiar with each other and to develop friendships. However, food needs to be thought about carefully with regard to the religious dietary requirements (eg vegetarian, kosher, halal). 
  
  

4.) Looking back and moving forward

At the end of the sessions you should think about what you have learned and shared together - and how to put this into practice so that it may transform your life and the life of those around you.

5.) Let‘s celebrate!

SHARE can be concluded by a feast. This may take place within the group, but could also be open to family, friends and your community.

  ...Part of the fun is choosing your own text combinations and reading them in the light of your own civic context and community relationships and with your own neighbours, who will soon become your friends and colleagues. It’s also good to make your own mistakes - we could certainly share with you a few of ours. This is where it all comes alive and where, in your hands - maybe with our help - the practice will deepen and grow. (“How to pitch a tent”)